hello,

i have just started the process of dealing with c.s. that hasnt been paid for almost 3 years because they had an invalid address and couldnt notify me. i tried to explain to her that my children were taken from me by my ex and her new husband and my childrens grandmother refused to tell me where they were but all said was that said was that i should have notified the authorites and i had to come to san diego (i live in s.f. bay area) and pay 10% of the total yo get my license back.

anyhow, i had read somewhere on the web about a set aside. i was wondering under what circumstances set asides are allowed are they allowed and what the process was to having one issued.

i would call back my case worker and ask her but for some reason i have a feeling that she just wants me to pay the money...

thanks a bunch